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		<title>Comment on 2nd of Two Posts Tonight:  My Own Story as a Birth Mother by by God's design</title>
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		<dc:creator>by God's design</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 06:50:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Oh, LeighAnn! I remember that you were my friend during that time.  I just didn&#039;t want to put a whole lot on you because I respected your friendship with the birth father... And didn&#039;t want to put you in the middle of things with him.  You are right, the experience has enabled me to be someone who can have the real life experience in reference when talking to families who&#039;ve faced crisis pregnancy, etc. The one thing I learned is you can&#039;t tell someone else what to do in the situation.  They have to live with the decision.  Just give love and support.  Today I throw my support behind any program that helps a mom keep her child as opposed to placing.  Because of the nature of society today, that decision is much more supported than it was 20 years ago.  I know a ton of people especially from my mom&#039;s generation resent the hell out of tax money paying to support them... But I guess I have a different perspective on it.  

Something I also gained from that experience was a different view on abortion as well.  I was asked on several occasions to speak to Right to Life Groups and I always would say, &quot;I am not a Right to Life&quot; supporter - I am very pro-choice in that regard.  (This doesn&#039;t make me pro-abortion.)  But it was a Right to Life sponsored clinic that subjected me to the graphic, violent videos that gave me nightmares for years.  For me, abortion was not the answer.  However, I can tell you - picketing abortion clinics &amp; screaming judgments upon young women entering the clinic accomplishes nothing.  The most impact is made if you are in their life either during the agonizing process of making that decision that leads up to that point or be willing to take her out the back door when it&#039;s over and done and sit with her and love her and support her during her recovery - because by the time she gets to the clinic - you are too late in influencing her decision.  Her baby&#039;s life may be lost and be sent straight to arms of Heaven; but that young mother&#039;s soul may still be lost - and she -as with any mother in crisis pregnancy - is the one who needs love... not judgment.  

I never read about Jesus picketing anything, have you?  :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Oh, LeighAnn! I remember that you were my friend during that time.  I just didn&#8217;t want to put a whole lot on you because I respected your friendship with the birth father&#8230; And didn&#8217;t want to put you in the middle of things with him.  You are right, the experience has enabled me to be someone who can have the real life experience in reference when talking to families who&#8217;ve faced crisis pregnancy, etc. The one thing I learned is you can&#8217;t tell someone else what to do in the situation.  They have to live with the decision.  Just give love and support.  Today I throw my support behind any program that helps a mom keep her child as opposed to placing.  Because of the nature of society today, that decision is much more supported than it was 20 years ago.  I know a ton of people especially from my mom&#8217;s generation resent the hell out of tax money paying to support them&#8230; But I guess I have a different perspective on it.  </p>
<p>Something I also gained from that experience was a different view on abortion as well.  I was asked on several occasions to speak to Right to Life Groups and I always would say, &#8220;I am not a Right to Life&#8221; supporter &#8211; I am very pro-choice in that regard.  (This doesn&#8217;t make me pro-abortion.)  But it was a Right to Life sponsored clinic that subjected me to the graphic, violent videos that gave me nightmares for years.  For me, abortion was not the answer.  However, I can tell you &#8211; picketing abortion clinics &amp; screaming judgments upon young women entering the clinic accomplishes nothing.  The most impact is made if you are in their life either during the agonizing process of making that decision that leads up to that point or be willing to take her out the back door when it&#8217;s over and done and sit with her and love her and support her during her recovery &#8211; because by the time she gets to the clinic &#8211; you are too late in influencing her decision.  Her baby&#8217;s life may be lost and be sent straight to arms of Heaven; but that young mother&#8217;s soul may still be lost &#8211; and she -as with any mother in crisis pregnancy &#8211; is the one who needs love&#8230; not judgment.  </p>
<p>I never read about Jesus picketing anything, have you?  <img src='http://digibygodsdesign.biz/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>Comment on 2nd of Two Posts Tonight:  My Own Story as a Birth Mother by LeighAnn</title>
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		<dc:creator>LeighAnn</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 04 Mar 2010 02:54:19 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I have never really heard the whole story but wish I could have been there for you way back when.  I knew you were pregnant and I knew who the father was.  It did not bother me a bit, and I thought you were incredibly brave to place your baby.  It is possibly the most sacrificial thing anyone can do.  the last few years have made me realize that everyone suffers in this life, it changes us for the worse or the better.  We are all filled with scars on the outside and inside, they make us more human, more compassionate. Some scars stay with us always, and sometimes the only comfort is that others have scars as well.  blessings.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have never really heard the whole story but wish I could have been there for you way back when.  I knew you were pregnant and I knew who the father was.  It did not bother me a bit, and I thought you were incredibly brave to place your baby.  It is possibly the most sacrificial thing anyone can do.  the last few years have made me realize that everyone suffers in this life, it changes us for the worse or the better.  We are all filled with scars on the outside and inside, they make us more human, more compassionate. Some scars stay with us always, and sometimes the only comfort is that others have scars as well.  blessings.</p>
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		<title>Comment on My Birth Mother likes Swimming &amp; Horses and Was Born in 1948 by Susan Thomas</title>
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		<dc:creator>Susan Thomas</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Feb 2010 14:28:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow--I can&#039;t even imagine how FRUSTRATED you are.  So much unnecessary &quot;red tape!&quot;  It ought to be a given that you (or your adoptive parents) would AUTOMATICALLY receive at least your genetic/medical records when placed in your new home.  I understand protecting the birth mother, but it&#039;s not like you have to know her name...!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow&#8211;I can&#8217;t even imagine how FRUSTRATED you are.  So much unnecessary &#8220;red tape!&#8221;  It ought to be a given that you (or your adoptive parents) would AUTOMATICALLY receive at least your genetic/medical records when placed in your new home.  I understand protecting the birth mother, but it&#8217;s not like you have to know her name&#8230;!</p>
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